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Grandma at a Distance

It is tricky keeping up the usual Grandma routine with social distancing. So I thought I would write about some of the things we are doing to keep in touch with the family and friends.

The family WhatsApp group is busier than ever, mostly with pictures of home schooling projects.

On Wednesday my granddaughter turned 4. I was glad I had the forethought to take her present over a few weeks ago. We had a family Zoom, her cousins sang Happy Birthday to her (and then Happy Anniversary to Grandad and me – 42 years!). There was lots of chatter about what the grandchildren were doing, and the grown ups got an occasional word in. When it finished I felt almost as exhausted as when they are all visiting us!

Grandad has started doing a story reading session with Mr 5 and Mr 6. He is reading Roald Dahl’s “George’s Marvellous Medicine”. Yesterday when the chapter was short, both boys asked for the next one.

Grandma at a distance

I did story writing with Mr 5 and later with Mr 6. I kept it simple and together we composed a story, much as we would have done face to face. Except this time we shared my screen using Zoom and they dictated what should happen. Mr 5 wrote a short story about “Grandpa at the Seaside”. Later he added a picture which his parents sent back to me. Mr 6 started an epic called “The Adventures of Stingray”. He told me this was going to be a book without pictures: picking up one of his parents’ books to show me the concept! We will see if he wants to continue the concept another day.

Keep fit has changed considerably. I am grateful that we are allowed out to exercise, and I am able to get somewhere close to my usual step count. My Pilates class have sent videos – I haven’t looked at them yet – but it is on the list. My Friday sport group are setting up a mail group. I did a virtual Knit and Natter with a lady I usually play badminton with, she is planning on extending that group, so it may not give the exercise but will give the socialising.

Usually, my Crochet group meets alternate Mondays but we are hoping to do meet ups online every week. Our lunch club meets monthly and we are planning to move to online weekly. I just need to work out if those not joining us, would like to and if they need telephone support to get the tech set up.

We have set up a WhatsApp for our small close. So far we haven’t had an emergency requests, but it is nice to know we can watch out for each others and help when needed.

I’ve sent a parcel to my daughter with some socks I finished and the children’s Easter books. She was pleased to get it. If you know someone who needs cheering up, Gemma can mail out things from her online shop, with the caveat that her family stays well and my son is able to get to the Post Office.

Hope you are all keeping safe – look after yourself and each other.